Overcoming Limiting Beliefs

In our journey through life, we often encounter invisible barriers that hinder our progress and potential.

These barriers, known as limiting beliefs, are deeply ingrained convictions that have been programmed into our subconscious mind from a young age, influenced by our family, society, and personal experiences. Often, we are not even aware of their presence, yet they wield significant power over our thoughts, actions, and ultimately, our outcomes in life.

Understanding and overcoming these limiting beliefs is crucial for unlocking our true potential and achieving the success we desire. Rewiring your mind and clearing limiting beliefs is a transformative process that involves changing thought patterns, beliefs, and behaviors that hold you back.

The question is, how do you start rewiring your mind and overcoming limiting beliefs?



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Limiting Beliefs, Fear and Self-Sabotage

facing your limiting beliefsBig changes often terrify us. They challenge the familiar pattern in our lives, forcing us to confront uncertainty and the possibility of failure. It’s not that easy to step outside our comfort zones as doing so would entail stepping into the unknown, and leaving behind what you’ve been accustomed to.

Aside from creeping discomfort, there is also a question of whether you’re capable of achieving greater heights. There must’ve been times where you had to step back and reassess your situation in the face of challenges.

Perhaps it was when you were offered a new job that promised advancement but required relocating to a new city, or maybe it was a decision to pursue further education or a major career shift.

Though you know both opportunities will be helpful to you, the thought of leaving your friends and family behind, or the prospect of returning to school or entering a completely different field might have filled you with both hope and apprehension.

Indeed, these moments of stepping back are crucial. They allow us to evaluate our motivations, weigh the pros and cons, and develop a strategy for moving forward. However, it should not fully stop you from achieving something more–something better.

A lot can happen with just a shift in mindset. By changing the way we perceive challenges and uncertainties, we can transform our fear into motivation. Let’s take a look at a few helpful ideas that can help you to move forward with less resistance and without the all too familiar self sabotage.



One of the things you can start on is self-reflection. This will help you identify the limiting beliefs and reflect on areas you feel stuck or unfulfilled.

If you’re finding self-reflection challenging, a helpful starting point is to write down your thoughts and feelings through journaling, as it is a powerful tool for gaining clarity and insight. It allows you to express your emotions, track your progress, and uncover patterns in your thinking.

You can start by asking simple questions or prompts:


Having them laid out gives you the opportunity to visualize and think about your emotions more deeply. It also serves as a good practice in terms of keeping your emotions in check.

There will be days when you’re not feeling too great about yourself, and starting those days on a bad note can have a significant impact on the rest of your day. By addressing your limiting beliefs and understanding their origins, you can mitigate their negative influence.


Challenge Your Beliefs

Once you’re done reflecting, the next thing you need to do is challenge your beliefs. This is a critical step in rewiring your mind. Limiting beliefs often stem from past experiences, societal conditioning, or negative self-talk, and they can significantly hinder personal growth and success.

A big part of challenging this belief is tracing the source. Alongside self-reflection, you should also consider investigating where this particular belief originated. Was it because of a past experience, a repeated message from others, or a conclusion you drew from your past failure?

Beliefs are formed through contexts, and these contexts often involve subjective interpretations rather than objective realities. By recognizing this, you can start to question the validity of your limiting beliefs. Ask yourself whether the belief is truly based on facts or if it is an assumption that has been reinforced over time.

Challenge the belief by seeking evidence that contradicts it. For instance, remind yourself of times when you successfully communicated your ideas or received positive feedback on your speaking skills.


Replace Your Negative Thoughts With Positive Ones

Words are more powerful than we think they are. The language we use, both in our internal dialogue and in our conversations with others, can significantly impact our mindset and overall well-being. Developing positive affirmations to counteract negative beliefs is crucial in achieving a healthy mindset.

Negative beliefs often manifest through negative self-talk, where we tell ourselves things like “I’m not good enough,” “I’ll never succeed,” or “I’m a failure.” These negative statements can become deeply ingrained in our minds, reinforcing self-doubt and limiting our potential. However, just as words can harm, they also have the power to heal and transform.

Positive affirmations are powerful tools that can help rewire our brains and replace negative beliefs with empowering ones. By consistently repeating positive affirmations, we can gradually shift our mindset from one of limitation and negativity to one of possibility and positivity. For instance, instead of saying, “I can’t do this,” we can affirm, “I am capable and strong, and I can overcome any challenge.”


Take Small Steps 

dealing with limiting beliefs that hinder your successReframing your mindset is one thing, but following through with actions makes all the difference. Your goals do not have to be big and grand, you can start with small ones that you can tick off a list easily. Taking consistent action towards your goals reinforces new beliefs and builds confidence at the same time.

In the study by Katherine Milkman (2015), she highlights how the simple act of prompting can be instrumental in achieving a certain goal. Milkman explains, “By prompting them to think through those things, even if they do it privately and don’t ever tell you their plans, you can help them reduce the likelihood that they will actually forget to follow through because now there is this cue embedded in their memory that is going to trigger the recollection.”

This means that by consciously thinking through your goals and the steps required to achieve them, you create mental cues that trigger the necessary actions.

Prompting can take various forms, such as setting reminders, creating checklists, or visualizing the steps needed to achieve your goals. These prompts act as mental nudges that help keep you focused and on track. By starting easy, you can build momentum and in turn, boost your confidence in achieving all of your goals.


A Powerful Technique to Remove Limiting Beliefs

Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) tapping is a powerful tool for transforming limiting beliefs that hold us back from reaching our full potential. This therapeutic method involves tapping on specific acupressure points on the body while focusing on the negative belief or emotion you wish to release.

By acknowledging these limiting beliefs and simultaneously tapping on these points, you help to unblock the energy pathways and reduce the emotional intensity associated with these beliefs. This process not only diminishes the power of negative thoughts but also allows for a more profound emotional and psychological shift, making room for new and empowering beliefs to take root.

Once the negative beliefs have been addressed and their emotional charge reduced, EFT tapping can also be used to instill new, positive affirmations. By tapping on the same acupressure points while repeating empowering statements, you can effectively reprogram your subconscious mind.

This dual approach of clearing out old, limiting beliefs and reinforcing new, positive ones helps to create a more supportive internal environment.


Be Consistent

consistency is key to overcoming limiting beliefsAs they always say, consistency is key. It is important to incorporate these activities into your routine as consistent repetition can reinforce new thought patterns.

As a result, these thought patterns can help combat your negative thinking. Additionally, by staying consistent, you can see your real progress over time.

This consistency allows you to build awareness of your strengths and identify areas for improvement. This then empowers you to make informed changes that enhance your personal growth and help you achieve your goals more effectively.

More importantly, learn to stay persistent amid adversity. Not everything can go your way, however, this does not invalidate your progress nor diminish your capabilities.

Setbacks are always part of the process. If anything, these challenges help build resilience and strengthen new beliefs. What’s vital is knowing how to adapt and adjust. Life is ever-changing, and circumstances often change, requiring us to be flexible in our approaches.

At the end of the day, there is no one way of doing things, and what works for one situation may not be effective in another. By being open to adaptation, you can better navigate challenges and seize opportunities as they arise.

Through consistent practice, these new beliefs become embedded in your subconscious, enabling you to overcome self-imposed limitations and embrace your true potential, guiding your actions and decisions towards more successful and fulfilling outcomes.



About Author:
Paul Jenkin | Life Coach & Somatic Facilitator
With 26 years of experience in alternative health and personal development, Paul coaches entrepreneurs and creatives to let go of limiting programming and empower themselves to reach greater levels of personal freedom, peace and success.

Author of ‘Powerful Manifestation Secrets’– he enjoys sharing information about a whole range of topics from LOA, optimal health, emotional intelligence, self-sovereignty and business. Schedule a 1-hr Expansion Call Today!






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